Worried about making a mistake when choosing your surrogate? You’re not alone—one wrong decision can lead to contract battles, lost money, or broken dreams. It’s easy to get caught up in emotions and miss the subtle warning signs hiding in a profile.
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne reveals exactly how to choose a surrogate step-by-step: what signals caution, how to interpret health notes, and which “green flags” actually matter. Real profile examples, actionable tips, and must-ask questions will help you avoid common pitfalls—and confidently invest in the right match for your family.
🎧 Press play so you can match with clarity and peace of mind!
What You'll Learn:
00:07 — The emotional reality of reading that first surrogate profile
05:02 — Why your fertility clinic’s requirements must guide your decision
07:01 — How to anchor your preferences and stay focused
11:00 — Spotting hidden red/orange flags before it’s too late
14:41 — Surrogate compensation, double embryo transfers, and support systems
18:40 — How health history (like thyroid antibodies) should affect your choice
30:27 — Why location, insurance, and termination views are critical to “how to choose a surrogate”
44:18 — The biggest financial red flag you should never ignore
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Key Takeaways:
🎧 Want to feel confident about how to choose a surrogate?Download the Surrogate Vetting Essentials Guide on BloomBridge and start your matching journey with clarity!
Dr. Alyssa Small Layne is a board-certified OB/GYN and minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon with extensive experience in surrogate requirements and gestational carrier support. After navigating her own surrogacy journey as an intended parent, she founded JUNIE to provide comprehensive surrogacy guidance and support.
On Surrogacy Made Simple, Dr. Layne combines her medical expertise with personal experience to help intended parents and surrogates navigate the surrogacy process with confidence and clarity.
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